Relationship status is more than a tag on Facebook, or a box you check when filling out your tax return. The quality of your closest personal relationships is likely to make a greater difference in your wellbeing than any other single factor, and if you’re married that means your relationship with your spouse. To paraphrase a nursery rhyme, “When it’s good, it’s very very good. And when it’s bad, it’s horrid.” If your marriage is not “very very good,” you need a transformed marriage.