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No Trust in your Marriage: 5 Steps to Care for your Heart

Your spouse cheated – emotionally or physically. You found pornography on their smartphone. Your spouse abuses alcohol or drugs, is physically or verbally abusive, spends money you don’t have, or flies into a rage or cuts you down verbally without warning. You cannot trust they will do what they say or be where they say they will be. Promises are not kept. There is no trust in your marriage.

How are you supposed to live with someone you cannot trust?

Love is to be given freely, unconditionally. You cannot earn true love, control it, or pay for it.

But trust is different. Trust must be earned. Trust that is given indiscriminately is foolish at best and often destructive. Trust is fragile and can be lost in a moment. Rebuilding trust is enormously difficult, and is much more costly than building it originally. Trust is priceless.

So what are you to do when trust has been broken? Is there any hope? Is it ever possible to move on?

Rebuilding trust in marriage can be done. It takes both partners’ investment to make it work, and it takes time. But this article is especially about your own heart in the process. Here are 5 important steps to take when there is no trust in your marriage.

When someone shows you who they are, believe them.

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Enter to win an Autographed Copy of my New Book

Launch week is a big deal for an author. It’s fun, scary, frustrating, nail-biting, exhilarating, and a whole lot more. Whew! And you get to take part in the fun by entering our giveaway!

Overcoming Fear and Anxiety through Spiritual Warfare was released on Tuesday, June 6. I’m so excited about this book and this message. If you’re struggling in any way with fear and anxiety, I know this will change your life.

And don’t you love FREE??!! To celebrate, we’re giving away a few autographed copies of the book, and here’s how you can win:

SHARE this video on Facebook or Instagram, and use the hashtag #DefeatYourFear.


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We’ll be looking for the hashtag #DefeatYourFear along with your Share of the video, and enter you to win a FREE autographed copy of the book. (Note: U.S. addresses only to receive a free autographed copy.)

In Banres and NobleAnd I couldn’t resist sharing a picture of my visit to Barnes & Noble, where I signed the copies they had. The customer service lady was thrilled to be able to sticker them with “Autographed Copy”!

If you missed my Facebook LIVE on Tuesday, the evening of Launch Day, you can watch it here. I share some highlights from the book, and some comments from those who had a chance to read it early.

And as of right now, Amazon still has the book available at a HUGE discount! No telling how long that will last, so you might want to grab a copy right away.


P.S. If you’d prefer to order from our website, you can do so here. And enter the code ThankYou at checkout (one word, no space) to get a 15% discount.

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It’s Over on Tuesday!

Your opportunity to get the FREE bonuses for preordering Overcoming Fear and Anxiety through Spiritual Warfare lasts only until the book is released on Tuesday, June 6. That’s less than 72 hours away.

And I don’t want you to miss out!

I hope you want that freedom and joy too!

After reading this book Lisa said,

I have come to realize that some, if not a great deal of my anxiety has been my own doing by holding on to old hurts and pain and insisting on doing things my way when God says, “we don’t have to live like this.” …  I can see how much worry has blocked my relationship with God. God says “Do Not Worry” (Matthew 6:34). I’ve read that before but it just didn’t sink in until now.

Julie wrote,

This book has spoken to my heart and mind in a way that nothing else has regarding anxiety. I think the one thing that has stood out to me the most is the fact that I need to be responsible for what I can be responsible for and let go of the things I’m not responsible for. Such a simple concept yet this was a huge lightbulb moment for me!

And Monserrate wrote,

Fear is still real but as a Latino male, I am not supposed to be afraid of anything or anxious about anything. You know like falling off a bike, breaking your leg and being told to walk it off. Being beaten as a child by a drunk step father has made it hard to talk to other males. So what does one do, over achieve of course. I thank God that I’m finally on a journey of healing. Learning to listen to my body and mind and finding healthy ways to express my feelings. This book Overcoming Fear and Anxiety Through Spiritual Warfare is more than just a good read. It is very helpful.

You can have your own lightbulb moments and experience true joy and freedom.

To find out more about Overcoming Fear and Anxiety through Spiritual Warfare go to

And if you order before June 6, you’ll receive several bonuses including teaching videos and worksheets, sample chapter, Resource Guide, and a year of Charisma magazine (from my publisher – Thank You!).

And right now, Amazon has the book available for a HUGE discount! (And that includes a pre-order price guarantee.)

I welcome you to this journey of Overcoming Fear and Anxiety through Spiritual Warfare.

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