When Your Spouse Chooses Work Over Family

When Your Spouse Chooses Work Over Family

You may have appreciated your spouse’s initiative and work ethic at first. But now the energy and hours they devote to their career leave you feeling neglected, lonely, resentful. Whatever you thought marriage would be, this wasn’t what you signed up for. What can you do when it seems your spouse chooses work over family?

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Why You Are NOT Entitled to Sex

Why You Are NOT Entitled to Sex

You expected to be having sex with your spouse when you got married. And you may have also imagined that since you’re now entitled to sex, that would validate you as a man or woman, cure your lust problem, or satisfy your desire for intimacy. How’s that working out for you?

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What Forgiveness Does NOT Do for your Marriage

What Forgiveness Does NOT Do for your Marriage

Your spouse is messing up BAD. He/she is having an affair, getting drunk, hiding out-of-control spending, using pornography, or engaging in some other destructive behavior. Some of the tapes in your head, and perhaps Christian friends who know, may be saying, “Forgive them. Let the past be the past, and move on.” But there are some things forgiveness does not do for your marriage. There’s more that’s needed.

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Ten Questions to Understand Your Spouse Better

Ten Questions to Understand Your Spouse Better

How well do you know your husband or wife? You may have thought you knew them quite well when you said “I do.” But there are things that have surprised you – both positive and negative. The things you’ve gone through in life have displayed parts of his/her character and heart you may never have suspected. Thoughtfully asking questions can be a fruitful way to understand your spouse better.

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