Nine Possible Reasons Your Spouse Doesn’t Want to Sleep With You

Nine Possible Reasons Your Spouse Doesn’t Want to Sleep With You

Sex and intimacy (they are related, but not the same!) is a top area of conflict in many marriages. Trying to demand sex from your spouse, or giving up and withdrawing yourself, are not good options. As with all marriage problems, you’ll get farther if you take time to understand something of the Why behind the issue, the reasons your spouse doesn’t want to sleep with you.

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Single Christian, Are You Struggling with Sex and Intimacy?

Single Christian, Are You Struggling with Sex and Intimacy?

If you’re a Christian and you’ve been in church, you’ve probably heard the message “sex is for marriage.” But you’re not married right now. So what are you supposed to do with your sexual drives? What if you’ve “messed up?” If you’re struggling with sex and intimacy as single Christian, you’re not alone.

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How Your Sexual Story Impacts Your Marriage

How Your Sexual Story Impacts Your Marriage

If you’ve been raised in church you’ve probably heard this is how it’s “supposed” to be. Boy meets girl, they fall in love, have sex for the first time on their wedding night, and *fireworks!* They immediately enter a fulfilling sexual relationship that lasts for the rest of their lives. But there’s a good chance that’s not your story. And your sexual story impacts your marriage.

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Ignore This if Your Love Life is Perfect

Ignore This if Your Love Life is Perfect

Your love life is perfect? Great! You can ignore the rest of this message if:

  • You’re experiencing beautiful regular intimacy, completely with your spouse if married, or authentically with others if you’re not married
  • You have no unhealed sexual baggage from your past
  • You completely understand and are practicing the kind of sexual integrity and wholeness God intended you to have
  • Your sexual story has been completely dealt with, healed, and transformed
  • Your intimacy with God is satisfying and complete

But if that’s not you, you need this! 

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Eight Scriptures to Enhance Your Sex Life

Eight Scriptures to Enhance Your Sex Life

Sex was God’s idea! And Oh how far humankind has fallen from His lofty ideal. But if you think the primary thing God has to say is, “Don’t do it”, there’s a lot you may have yet to learn. The Bible is actually quite steamy. It’s not that hard to find Scriptures to enhance your sex life.

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