Why Doesn’t God Deliver Me From This Addiction?Alcohol. Drugs. Sex. Porn. Gambling. Food. Video games. Social media. We could extend that list almost indefinitely. If you’re a…
When Pain Makes it Feel Impossible to Connect with the Family of GodAfter being deeply hurt in church or experiencing spiritual abuse you want to hide. Your body and soul may recoil…
Three Things You Need to Recover from Church Hurt“Raise your hand if you have not been hurt in church.” Just this week I heard a friend of mine…
When Church Hurts a Woman’s Relationship with GodChurch should be the safest place on earth. The family of God should be the place where every single human…
Is It Gossip, Loyalty, Cover-up, or Getting Help?Should you tell? Does keeping it hidden mean you’re being loyal – to the family? To the church? Does telling…
Rebuilding Your Marriage After Traumatizing SexGod intended married sex to be life-giving – mutual, satisfying, exciting, comforting, bonding, nourishing, joyful. Evil has so hijacked sex,…
To the Wife Traumatized by Married SexJust because sex happens within marriage doesn’t always mean it’s good. God designed sex to be a beautiful life-giving nurturing…
Recovering from Spiritual AbuseWhen you’ve been harmed in the name of God, the path to wholeness is long and slow. Last time we…
Hiding and Intimacy: They Cannot CoexistAre you aware of how you are hiding? You are hiding, you know, whether you think you are or not.…
Becoming a Recovering People-PleaserThe trap of people-pleasing is an easy one to fall into. I’m sure personality has something to do with it.…