How to Choose to Be Thankful Anyway

How to Choose to Be Thankful Anyway

Today is Thanksgiving Day in the United States. I love this day. Without the commercialization of most other holidays, we can more easily focus on what’s most important. This year perhaps more than ever it’s important to intentionally choose to be thankful anyway, even in tough times.

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How to Fight FOR Your Marriage Not AGAINST Your Spouse

How to Fight FOR Your Marriage Not AGAINST Your Spouse

Your marriage is important. It means everything to you. Anything that important requires investment of time and energy. But the harder you try, the worse things seem to get. It’s as if you’re fighting against what you want most. It would be nice to know how to fight for your marriage and not against your spouse.

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Do This, Not That: 5 Attitudes for a Better Marriage

Do This, Not That: 5 Attitudes for a Better Marriage

Attitudes color everything. Attitudes develop usually without you realizing it. Some attitudes you brought to your marriage and some you developed through the ups and downs of your life together. Our sinful natures naturally breed attitudes that wound ourselves and others. But you can choose to develop healthier attitudes for a better marriage.

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Dealing with Triggers in your Marriage

Dealing with Triggers in your Marriage

The only people who don’t get triggered are those who are perfectly healed and completely mature. And neither you nor your spouse are there yet! So how do you handle triggers in your marriage? Is a fight or withdrawing inevitable? There must be a better way.

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