Nine Possible Reasons Your Spouse Doesn’t Want to Sleep With You

Nine Possible Reasons Your Spouse Doesn’t Want to Sleep With You

Sex and intimacy (they are related, but not the same!) is a top area of conflict in many marriages. Trying to demand sex from your spouse, or giving up and withdrawing yourself, are not good options. As with all marriage problems, you’ll get farther if you take time to understand something of the Why behind the issue, the reasons your spouse doesn’t want to sleep with you.

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Single Christian, Are You Struggling with Sex and Intimacy?

Single Christian, Are You Struggling with Sex and Intimacy?

If you’re a Christian and you’ve been in church, you’ve probably heard the message “sex is for marriage.” But you’re not married right now. So what are you supposed to do with your sexual drives? What if you’ve “messed up?” If you’re struggling with sex and intimacy as single Christian, you’re not alone.

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Eight Scriptures to Enhance Your Sex Life

Eight Scriptures to Enhance Your Sex Life

Sex was God’s idea! And Oh how far humankind has fallen from His lofty ideal. But if you think the primary thing God has to say is, “Don’t do it”, there’s a lot you may have yet to learn. The Bible is actually quite steamy. It’s not that hard to find Scriptures to enhance your sex life.

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How Detachment from your Spouse Makes Your Marriage Better

How Detachment from your Spouse Makes Your Marriage Better

As with everything good that God created, the enemy has marred and distorted God’s statement, “they shall become one flesh.” (Genesis 2:24) When working as God intended, that is a picture of beautiful intimacy between husband and wife, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. But there is also a critically important sense in which detachment from your spouse makes your marriage better.

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How to Keep Intimacy Alive After Fifty

How to Keep Intimacy Alive After Fifty

The stereotype of an exciting sex life during the early years of marriage that simply disappears as you age is just that – a stereotype. And it’s a dangerous one for relationships. Believing that a lack of intimacy is normal or inevitable keeps couples from addressing the factors that make for a vibrant intimate relationship well into the senior years. It’s possible to keep intimacy alive after fifty!

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