Are You Wounding or Healing Your Spouse?

Are You Wounding or Healing Your Spouse?

You’re probably doing both. Two sinners getting married is a setup for pain – and for transformation. It’s likely you’re getting both wounded and healed yourself, perhaps more of one than the other. But that’s for another day. For now, what affect are you having on your husband or wife? How are you bringing yourself to the marriage? Are you wounding or healing your spouse?

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How to Deal with Masturbation and Pornography as a Christian

How to Deal with Masturbation and Pornography as a Christian

How do you handle the solo sexual stuff? How do you deal with masturbation and pornography as a Christian?

I’m writing about this because you asked. You send me questions about this almost every week, and you deserve an answer. As both a Medical Doctor and Doctor of Ministry, I’ll do my best to offer you both truth and hope on this topic.

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God Help Me! I’m Sick!

God Help Me! I’m Sick!

Sickness and disease: is it simply a fact of life on this miserable, sin-filled, messed-up planet? Is it our own fault? Can we expect healing as a result of faith in Jesus? Even those who haven’t previously sought God’s intervention often seek out prayer for healing when they or a loved one becomes ill.

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How Sexual Questions are Spiritual Questions

How Sexual Questions are Spiritual Questions

A spouse feeling lost and lonely because their husband or wife isn’t interested in sexual intimacy. A young (or not-so-young) person heavy with shame while feeling unable to break free from pornography. A single person wrestling with what to do with their sexual drives and needs. A married person disappointed and angry when their spouse is not fulfilling their sexual desires. A newly married spouse struggling with intimacy because of old baggage. A young person confused over the conflicting sexual messages the media and the church are giving out. At their root, all of these sexual questions are spiritual questions.

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Helping Your Spouse Move Past Their Past

Helping Your Spouse Move Past Their Past

Every human being comes into marriage with baggage. You cannot make it through a couple decades or more of life without experiencing some kind of trauma. Some of those wounds are deeper than others. What do you do when your spouse brings that baggage into the marriage? How can you help your spouse move past their past?

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