How to Find “Your People” When You Need HelpIsolation is dangerous. But connecting is often hard. In my work with people this is almost always the most challenging…
What to Do When God’s “Truth” and Your Experience CollideYou “know” what’s right. Or you’re pretty sure you do. Then why does it feel so – wrong? Your head,…
Why Healing from Intimacy Gone Wrong Requires ForgivenessForgiveness is a big deal. Your head knows Jesus forgives you, but your heart still wonders, especially when you keep…
How Sex Has Lost its Glory: Intimacy Gone WrongGod created you for something good, a level of goodness we can only begin to imagine now. He built into…
5 Ways to Pray When You Keep Messing UpYou mess up. You ask God for forgiveness. Thankfully you’re forgiven! Then you mess up again, and the cycle continues.…
Beyond Bad Behavior: Get From Sobriety to Recovery to RedemptionEvery addiction is a whole-person “disease.” The “thing” might be alcohol, pornography, sex, gambling, video games, or a multitude of…
When You’re Not Sure You Want to be (Sexually) WholeJesus asked a question we may sometimes think strange. He asked the man who had been lame for 38 years,…
What Were You Even Created For?If you woke up this morning feeling that everything in your world is better-than-good and you’re fully satisfied, this article…
Looking at Your Story Around Sex and Intimacy with Honesty and CompassionWhenever I begin a relationship with a new coaching client I ask, “How did we get here? What’s your story?”…
Sexual Anorexia, Asexuality – Is It a Thing?I don’t like labels. Sometimes descriptive phrases can be meaningful, but when they become labels they’re more often harmful than…