This is not about not wanting what is best for your loved ones, or not wanting to be successful. It’s about getting rid of the chains that your own fears create in business, personal relationships, and even your spiritual life.
It’s possible to care too much. Becoming too invested in the outcome puts you in a very vulnerable position, clouds your perspective, and removes all your negotiating power.
- If you want a specific car or house too much you may agree to a significantly higher price than necessary.
- If you have your heart set on a particular job position you may agree to terms that make your future much more difficult than it needs to be.
- If you worry excessively over what people will think your judgment will be clouded in leadership and making difficult decisions.
- If you want a relationship with a certain someone at any cost you will be blind to danger signs in their behavior and character.