It’s not sex, or lack thereof. It’s not fights over money or in-laws. It’s not personality conflicts or differing expectations or changes in health. But it’s none of those things that will really destroy your marriage.
It’s what makes most marriages crumble that are affected by the enormous obstacles of domestic violence, addiction, or infidelity, while some similarly affected marriages survive and eventually thrive.
It’s what makes some marriages totally destructive and miserable even though husband and wife still have a ring on their finger.
It’s the one thing God wants to help you eliminate from your marriage so that you and your spouse can live happily ever after.
That ONE thing?
What’s In It For Me?
WIIFM is the deadliest virus that can infect a marriage.
It takes two for a marriage to work. And if either partner is infected with WIIFM it may eventually destroy the marriage. If BOTH husband and wife are free of this deadly disease they can overcome just about any obstacle.
You can’t cure your partner; you can only inspect and eradicate this virus from yourself. Or more correctly, ask God to cure you.