Most men want sex. And for the many men who would like a better sex life with their wives, it sometimes seems a frustrating and elusive hope. But there are things within your control, things you as a husband can do to for a better sex life.
Are you best friends with your spouse? I hope so. The friendship factor in marriage is huge. It’s one of the biggest things that differentiates a healthy marriage from living together as roommates. If you’re not friends with your spouse, marriage can deteriorate into a convenient financial arrangement, “just sex” (or not), or “living with the enemy.”
You want to be a good husband, the kind of husband God wants you to be. You love your wife deeply. But when it comes to sex, many husbands can fall into the belief that sex is about meeting their own needs, that it’s something you “get” from your wife. But it’s not only about you! There are also important things sex does for your wife.
You want to be a “good” wife, the kind of wife God wants you to be. You love your husband deeply. But it seems he’s always thinking about sex. Does he really have to have sex that often? It will help to understand what sex does for your husband.
Feeling as though someone else doesn’t care as much as you do hurts a lot. You want things to work out between you and your spouse, but you don’t see any evidence that your spouse wants the same thing. What can you do when you care more than your spouse?