A Cure, not a Band-Aid

A Cure, not a Band-Aid

The problem isn’t always the real problem. Taking Tylenol when you have a fever doesn’t cure the infection. Mowing the grass doesn’t take out the weeds. It was the under-the-surface part of the iceberg that sank the Titanic. You need a cure, not a Band-Aid. Whatever metaphor you choose, problems won’t get better unless you get to the stuff underneath the surface.

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God Does Not Work Alone

God Does Not Work Alone

God can and does work any way He chooses. But God did not create you to need only Him. That may sound dangerous to say, but hear me out. God does not work alone. There are at least three ways in which God is not all you need.

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Relationship Habits

Relationship Habits

Like locking the door behind you when you enter your home or brushing your teeth before going to bed, relationship habits make relating to your spouse automatic. And those habits impact everything about the quality of your relationship. Are you happy with the habits in your relationship?

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The Difference Between Codependency and Love

The Difference Between Codependency and Love

Unhealthy people draw other people into their dysfunction. Anyone trying to be married to, or parent, or care for, or love someone who is harming themselves and others struggles with knowing what to do. How can you tell the difference between codependency and love?

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