Miserable Marriage: How can I get my spouse to . . ?

One of the most common questions I am asked is some variation of “How can I get my spouse to . . ?” I hear from men and women every day who feel stuck in a miserable marriage. Is that you?

In a healthy marriage many of your mutual needs are met. But too often that doesn’t happen. You can easily become trapped in a cycle of trying everything you can think of to get your spouse to meet your needs – without success. But the harder you try things only seem to become worse. You’re tempted to believe your spouse has made it their mission in life to make you miserable.

You don’t have to remain stuck in marriage misery! You have a lot more power than you think. Your needs can be met.

In this video I offer 3 suggestions for how to get your wants and needs met in marriage.

In this video you’ll discover:

  • where your power and influence lies in your marriage
  • the single most important “trick” to get your spouse to do what you need or want
  • the key to getting your deepest needs met

Watch the video here.

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I’d love to hear about your unique situation. Are you getting your needs met in your marriage? If not, what steps have you tried? And how well do you think you’re meeting your spouse’s needs as well? Leave a comment below.

[reminder]Which of your needs are not being met in your marriage? What healthy steps can you take to get your needs met?[/reminder]

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