How to Plan Your Way Through the Holiday BluesI love the Christmas season, but it hasn’t always been that way. Some Christmases have been really really hard. I…
How to Experience Getting Your Validation From GodFrom very soon after you were born you have been looking for validation. Do you see me? Am I OK?…
How to Experience God in Your Tomorrow: a Theology of HopeConsider what you’re anxious about. Your logical left brain may say, “I’m not anxious! I just want to be prudent.”…
How to Experience God’s Presence in Your Past TraumaWe’ve all experienced “stuff.” No one comes through life unscathed. What’s in your bucket of stuff is different from what’s…
How Past Intimacy Gone Wrong may Harm Your Marriage NowYour marriage didn’t start with a blank slate when it comes to intimacy. You may think your spouse is the…
Five Warning Signs Your Marriage is Headed for an AffairBreaking your marriage vows, especially for a follower of Jesus, doesn’t begin by waking up one morning and deciding to…
Fully Alive Marriage: It’s Not What You ThinkIf you’re single, perhaps you imagine a Fully Alive marriage as one where your spouse anticipates your needs and fulfills…
Your Life Through the Lens of the Need for IntimacyGod created you with the need, desire, and capacity for intimacy. What have you done with that need for intimacy?…
The Lies, Wounds, and Empty Places that Messed You UpThe human heart is not a pretty place, at least not after living in this world for any length of…
The Most Overlooked Obstacle to Maturity and WholenessWe are an impatient people. Our contemporary culture has fueled our natural human tendency to go for instant gratification. We…