Being the Family of God Whether or Not You Have Earthly FamilyFamily. Love it, hate it. Want it, can’t stand it. Family is messy because family is made up of, well,…
How Your Relationship Status is Always ComplicatedPerhaps the only good thing Facebook has ever done was to allow the relationship status “It’s Complicated.” And is there…
Why Healing from Intimacy Gone Wrong Requires ForgivenessForgiveness is a big deal. Your head knows Jesus forgives you, but your heart still wonders, especially when you keep…
How Sex Has Lost its Glory: Intimacy Gone WrongGod created you for something good, a level of goodness we can only begin to imagine now. He built into…
What Does Sexual Wholeness Look Like?What is Jesus inviting you into? Steve imagined a life of striving and trying harder to “do” right, never quite…
When You’re Not Sure You Want to be (Sexually) WholeJesus asked a question we may sometimes think strange. He asked the man who had been lame for 38 years,…
Three Things to Do With Your Messy Sexual StoryEvery single day, no exceptions, I hear from people struggling. Men and women, married and unmarried, young and old, from…
Unpacking What You Learned About Relationships and IntimacyYour brain is a sponge, not a source. You may believe you’ve come up with an original thought, but that’s…
Looking at Your Story Around Sex and Intimacy with Honesty and CompassionWhenever I begin a relationship with a new coaching client I ask, “How did we get here? What’s your story?”…
Disentangling the Connection Between Sex and IntimacyWe use euphemisms all the time, especially around sex. I’ll spare you a list. But did you know the Bible…