When You’re Not Sure You Want to be (Sexually) WholeJesus asked a question we may sometimes think strange. He asked the man who had been lame for 38 years,…
Three Things to Do With Your Messy Sexual StoryEvery single day, no exceptions, I hear from people struggling. Men and women, married and unmarried, young and old, from…
What Were You Even Created For?If you woke up this morning feeling that everything in your world is better-than-good and you’re fully satisfied, this article…
Unpacking What You Learned About Relationships and IntimacyYour brain is a sponge, not a source. You may believe you’ve come up with an original thought, but that’s…
Looking at Your Story Around Sex and Intimacy with Honesty and CompassionWhenever I begin a relationship with a new coaching client I ask, “How did we get here? What’s your story?”…
Disentangling the Connection Between Sex and IntimacyWe use euphemisms all the time, especially around sex. I’ll spare you a list. But did you know the Bible…
When Nothing You’re Doing Makes You SatisfiedI would add something to one of the lists in Proverbs: “Three things are never satisfied; four never say, “Enough”:…
What You Can and Can’t Expect Church to Do for YouChurch was Jesus’ idea. I pray your experience of church has been, is now, and will continue to be wonderful.…
The Lifeline You Need to Grow and ThriveYou are not the source. You can’t be; you’re a creature, a created being. You cannot generate life from within…
Practical Ways to Pursue Intimacy with GodGod wants to be wanted. Isn’t that like you? Don’t you want to be wanted? What if your desire for…