A Time for Everything

The Byrds Turn Turn TurnThe Byrds sang it: “A time to every purpose under heaven.”

I wonder how many people who still sing Turn! Turn! Turn! realize that the lyrics were taken essentially word-for-word from the Bible, Ecclesiastes ch. 3. It talks about a truth that those of us who live in this super-charged ultra-fast over-connected society often forget.

As an OB-Gyn physician I rejoice when it’s a time to be born. But I struggle to not feel like a failure when it’s time for one of my patients, or worse yet a close friend or family member, to die.

I find myself looking for the time to laugh and dance. I struggle to embrace the time to weep and mourn.

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A Salute to all Caregivers

CaregivingI have not been a caregiver in the sense that many are. But if the statistics hold, one day I may be. The number of adults serving as caregiver to a parent, a spouse, or another family member is enormous.

With more of us living longer, the number needing care for illnesses such as Alzheimer’s or other dementia, stroke, or other brain disorders is only getting larger. Numbers can’t describe the emotional, financial, and physical toll caregiving takes on one’s life.

Not having experienced caregiving myself I’m sure anything I say would be inadequate to honor those who take on the responsibility for caring for a loved one. But I do want to say Thank You!

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Alzheimer’s Disease: A Scary Thought

Elderly WomanWhat was I going to write about? Oh yes, I remember. I just had a senior moment there.

Have you ever felt like that? Are you worried about whether it’s “just” a “senior moment”, or something much more scary – Alzheimer’s?

Losing one’s mental capacity ranks near the top on any list of fears about the future as people get older. The good news about some of our health care advances is that people are living longer. The bad news is that with living longer comes a significant risk of Alzheimer’s disease and other dementia.

Of all the topics we have asked our listeners to comment on from the Dr Carol Show, this one generated more response than any other. When we asked our listeners if they would want to know if they were going to get Alzheimer’s disease, and what they would do differently if they were, here’s a sample of the responses:

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Why is Health Care So Expensive?

Health Care CostsThe United States has the dubious distinction of spending more money on health care for every man, woman, and child than any other country in the world. Just check the graph at the right.

And yet we are far from being the healthiest.

Why is it so expensive? We want to be healthy, but our spending doesn’t seem to be getting us there.

Health Care Costs GCPAnd it’s not only the dollar amounts that are rising. The percent of our GDP that is spent on healthcare continues to rise as well.

How much should we spend on health care? That’s not an easy question to answer. And that discussion will continue to give rise to much debate.

Why does it cost so much? That’s easier to answer, even though it’s not simple.

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[Newsletter] A Streetcar Named Desire

Totally Free Ministries LogoWe need close intimate personal relationships. Our desires are strong, and they incorporate the physical, emotional, and spiritual parts of our being.

Desire is beautiful. Desire is dangerous.

If we ignore our desires, they don’t go away – they get stronger and go underground.

If we give in to our desires indescriminately, the objects of our desires may just end up destroying us.

How can we navigate our human desires and find their true home?

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